Thousand of people break up everyday! The problem is that usually they would love to stay together but can not work past the problems. Getting your ex back is the first step in solving your problems, but how do you do that when they broke up with you? Keep reading to find some can not miss steps that will put your relationship back on track.
The first step is to start living again!
While in the relationship, you may have neglected old friends or areas of interest. Now is the time to renew those interests and go out and have some fun. Try to remember what you did and what drve your life before you were in the relationship. Chances are you will find these renewed passions to be fulfilling and reinvigorating.
By doing this you will find that your self-confidence and sense of purpose have received a much-needed boost. In addition, it is highly likely that news of your newfound happiness will reach your ex, reminding them of the person they were attracted to in the first place. But during this time, you must fight the desire to contact your ex. This is essential if you wish to get your ex back.
Now is a good time to reevaluate your relationship honestly. Resist the temptation to relive what he or she did wrong. Instead, look at what your part was in the stress that led to the break-up. If your part is something that you are willing and able to change, then you are ready for the final step.
It is now time to contact your ex. Tell them upfront that there is no hidden agenda to your invite, but that you simply want to discuss how things went bad. At this point, you may have to swallow your pride and admit that maybe you would do things differently if you had the chance.
Of course, there are no guarantees, but at least you can go to sleep at night knowing that you have faced the realities of your relationship honestly, and have made a solid attempt at getting your ex back.